I am not an expert. I’m also not a genius, probably. What I am is a perfectionist in her late twenties, who loves to make stuff and has taken a little longer than expected to find her confidence. I want to share this journey with you, because it’s worth talking about, and maybe I’ll have something to say that resonates with you, or helps you find your direction.
If you want to do something and succeed, you have to actually do the thing. This is really the number one lesson, the most important piece of advice for anyone doing anything. I talk to myself about this every day. Do the thing, break it into small pieces and attend to one at a time. Then lather, rinse, repeat. Every day.
Failure is inevitable! Or, rather, small failures are. Mistakes, errors, oopsies- if you will. How we handle them is important. I was going to put in an anecdote I read about surgeons here, but on second thoughts, I’ll just say this. Mistakes are survivable, and you can learn from them when you lean in.
Take yourself seriously. This one is pretty difficult, because we live in ourselves, we’ve seen it all. Deep down a lot of us take a pretty unglamorous view of ourselves, which can make it hard to take on new skills. You don’t necessarily need to believe in yourself all the time, I don’t think that’s possible. But if you can realise that you’re not less than the people around you who are following their dreams, it helps so much. You are a person like anyone else. I find that repetition helps with this. Even on the days where I don’t quite believe it, I’ve been sticking with this general idea. Fear and doubt will come and go, that’s ok, but you don’t have to put energy into believing the fear. Don’t chase self doubt down the rabbit hole.
Your skills, your hobbies, your passions and your talents are out there waiting. When you’re ready, they’re there. If you fall down on the job, you can get back up and it’s all still there. If you need to take time off and you’re in the position to do that, have that break and know that you can always come back.
Those are the the big four that are basic, important, and sometimes elusive. I plan on blogging regularly about all kinds of things. A humorous approach to creativity, motivation, small business ownership. Both the practical and the esoteric. So thanks for reading! My Etsy store Pepperberry and Pine Studio has art, stationery and gifts with new products appearing regularly throughout September. It’s my baby, shiny and new, and oh so small. I’m very proud.